Originally posted by Clogs
Girls do mature faster than boys,
Bold faced lie. Little shock it actually came from a girl. I have NEVER met a girl the same age as me who is any more mature. Most girls my age are still busy trying to figure the same things I am. Some are even a few years behind. Girls do not mature faster. Infact, in cases like this one they will mature slower because they will miss out on a few lessons they learn by dating people their own age and going slowly.
Originally posted by Clogs
and society has increased the pressure on them to use this gain to get into adult behaviour earlier than is legal.
No it doesn't. They just want to get there earlier because they think they're more mature. This is a gigantic sign of immaturity and something I suffered from a great deal. Thinking you're older than you are because you think you're more mature than you are. Most girls don't snap out of this until their early twenties.
Originally posted by Clogs
She won't see it as wrong - she's got plenty of evidence from mags and her peer group to prove that it can't be wrong.
This is the nail in the coffin for that whole "Girls mature faster thing." If they were mature peer-pressure would be moot, and her sense of right and wrong in this situation would be stronger.
There are cases of women being more mature, however there are examples of men being more mature. It has nothing to do with gender, just how quickly you learn about life as you grow up.